My husband cheated on me with a man in the oil patch, seems like there is a lot of that sh*t going on there
Everyone assumes that with the money that men make up north, that everything is fine at home. They assume whatever money they can make they can use to solve the problems. I would way rather have my husband back than the money he makes. I used to cry every time he left, I couldn’t handle it. I wanted him home every second. Now I cry when he comes home, I never want to see him. He has changed, and the blame is somehow on me. Somehow I’m not doing what I should as his wife. I don’t want this anymore, I can’t handle everything that he puts on me. I can’t be an oilfield wife. Men think that its hard to leave for those two weeks, they should see the struggle that their wives and girlfriends go through at home. They are up there snorting c*caine, or drinking whenever they can. Any days spent shutdown they are out at the bar and who knows what they do then. They don’t care about the struggle you are going through at home, they don’t want to hear about it because its somehow too hard on them, they can’t handle anything more than their own issues. They call you everyday at first but that stops eventually. The longer they stay, the more they change. I don’t know who my husband is anymore, he’s not the man that I fell in love with, and he is definitely not someone I could ever think about having children with. I can’t trust him anymore because he has lied to me so many times that I don’t believe a word that comes out of his mouth. I pity anyone who thinks its worth it for the money. It will break you in the end.
A broken oilfield wife.
My wife has been a stay at home couch potato, now she wants to join me on my scaffolding crew, finally she can bring home the bacon, question is, should I let her? Scaffolding is haaaard work.
Over the past 5 years I have watched her beat him down to nothing. Physically and mentally. The problem was she made him believe it’s was him. When it was really her. With out him she would have been nothing. He had a break down and she said she deserved better. She left… last night he hung himself. Now she is all sad. When really it was all her. RIP bro
Never give up on anyone or anything because miracles happen every day.
You left him. You just walked out on him while he is going through this time. And to make it worse you made things worse for him instead of being there and helping through it together like partners are suppose to. He was always there for you no matter what and always did everything for you. I hope you get your karma!!! And never get him back!!
My husband admitted to cheating on me for the first 10 years of our relationship. I would feel devastated about it if he actually knew how to f**k. He’s like a teenage boy who is over eager and is only looking to get himself off. So all those skanks he’s been with in the past didn’t have a good lay. I try and tell him how to work it but he doesn’t seem to get it. All he ever does is gets over excited when we have sex and cums within a matter of minutes. Then when we have time alone where we can go for hours, he just does all the same moves and then gets frustrated if hes not hitting the right spot. So No. I don’t feel at all devastated about him cheating because his sex isn’t shit!
My boyfriend i think is cheating on me. I’ve been going through his phone while he’s asleep. What are the signs of cheating? He talks to his cousin quite a bit and shes hawt, could he be seeing his own cousin?
My life: mon/fri after work drink 24 coors light. Sat/sun start drinking at 9 a.m- passout around 9 p.m. Ex left 2 months ago cause i treater her like shit. I have a 10 y/o daughter that i havent seen since she was 2. I dont pay child support because the mother doesnt want me to have pt custody so a dead beat i except that. 40 years old who is good looking but ruins the pof talk once i get in black out mode i say stupid shit. So here it is, i am that old lonely man they say. I cant go out because i may stab someone because when i blackout i go coocoo. Cant have a roomate cause last one i pulled a knife on him and got a charge(luckily the court date was on xmas stat that it got thrown out of court) what a sad life i live but i seem to enjoy it. Well thats my confeesion of the day